QUOTE(ilikebigstrongwomen @ Nov 24 2008, 02:31 PM) [snapback]198959[/snapback]
I know it is a cliche but it isn't what you are looking at - it is the light within the person that is important.
You're right, the light within is what's important,
however, if your stomach turns when you look at the person, there's going to be another light issue ... with the light switch. Catch my drift?
Seriously though, being a BBW my entire life, I can say first hand that I know some men are absolutely
not attracted to us ... and that's fine! While beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, it goes for the face as well as the body.